Oh, thank goodness. I'm SO glad you liked it. I've felt just wretched, not having this done sooner.

And OMG, no, I didn't know at all about your cousin, and, honestly, wouldn't have touched the subject with at 10 foot pole if I had. I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

I'm glad that it came off well, though. I work on a military base, and there's been a lot of awareness of the subject, particularly how hard it is for people to ask for help...