Oooh, I have no idea what you look like, just that you have long hair and live in New Mexico. So, two guesses:

http://www.pocanticohills.org/womenenc/okeefe.gif

Or maybe, because I know you like the Pre-Raphaelites, like this:

http://preraphaelitesisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/jane-morris-seated.jpg

There is someone on my flist who has posted photos who looks like Jane Burden Morris.